Don’t allow people who can’t see and appreciate your worth to talk down on you, not even your spouse is allowed to do that. If you are dating a partner who always complains that you are inferior, please walk away. The worst thing that can happen to any individual is getting married to a partner who manages them.
You are not to be managed, you are beautifully and wonderfully made, if they can’t see it, then they are not qualified to be in your life. Compromising to please anybody will lead to disappointment.
If a brother tells you that your skin is too dark, don’t try to use bleaching cream to please him, tell him to use the door and look for a fair sister. If you start the foundation of your relationship with insecurities, you will suffer emotionally in your marriage.
Many ladies have lost their true self in the process of pleasing a man who does not appreciate their originality. One of the major reasons why you can do anything to please a man who doesn’t appreciate you is because you have low self-esteem.
Dear king, stop behaving like a puppet to win a lady who does not value you. There is a difference between when your partner wants to see you grow and become the best version of yourself and when they want you to do everything to please them. Marry the one who loves and honours all that you represent.
If you are battling with low self-esteem, please get knowledge in that area, and spend quality time with the Holy Spirit, He will make you start seeing and appreciating your originality. When you love yourself, you become bold and nobody will be able to manipulate your emotions. A lady that loves and appreciates herself can never be intimidated.
I’m enough for my king, I don’t have to compromise to please a man, the man that God will give to me will help me grow and not pull me down.
You are enough, yes you are.
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