Today, I saw someone advertise some housing units for rent in one of the groups I belong to and while some people were arguing about the cost being too much, the units were already paid for in just few hours.
The agent didn’t let the comment of those who felt it was too high to discourage him or force him to edit the price. He was convinced that offer was good enough and left it at that. Those who valued what he was offering got it in no distant time.
It just dawned on me that we don’t have to lower our standards just to find a spouse. Set your boundaries and expectations and if they mean a lot to you, do not edit it to fit in. There is definitely someone who loves you that way and is willing to do your bidding.
You don’t want sex before marriage? Don’t be ashamed to state it. Some people still believe in this, no matter how much others might laugh at it. If you want a man that respects you, he is out there.
If you want a woman that understands what being a wife entails, she is out there. If you want a partner that doesn’t see flirting away as a way of life, he/she is out there. If you want a rich partner, he/she is out there.
If you want a Godly partner, he/she is there.
The list goes on. Don’t edit those core values. Those who feel these virtues are too much to possess aren’t for you.
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